When one needs a break from rollercoasters
Marijke, 27, Germany, not-really-anymore student, more-likely-bookseller-to-be, who the fuck knows.
This is a multi-fandom blog. I'm someone who falls into new fandoms all the time but hardly ever completely falls out of old ones, so basically, be prepared for anything and everything. Stuff you may find here includes but is not limited to Takarazuka Kagekidan, Arashi, Merlin, Dreamworks' Dragons, Doctor Who, Marvel Cinematic Universe, assorted other TV shows and animes. Be prepared to go through phases with me and to get shamelessly spammed with stuff I think other people should be watching. Currently I'm watching a shitload of anime, obviously.
youtube-erryday:

This quite literally my favourite caption of all time

youtube-erryday:

This quite literally my favourite caption of all time

french-verbz:

"Learning a foreign language is cultural appropriation." says the English speakers for whom most of the world’s media content is available in their native language and have never been in a situation where their safety or ability to communicate has been compromised due to language barriers.

bakpaocoklat:

Longest Oofuri_69min entry I ever made hahaha so it become so doodley and messy phewww :”/

The theme is FIRST KISS! This might happen way in the future, after they win a game that will bring them to Koshien or something—hahaha <3 

MIHASHI WILL CRY, FOR SURE.

MY FRIENDS

ARE THE BEST

kirito-solo-player:

This is too much.

ilyone:

Let’s be real this silly cross-over has absolutely no reason to exist except for the fact that it made me happy to draw it ;p (and the parallel made me laugh)
Also I think I missed jasico week when I was away so expect one or two jasico sketches to make up for that sometime soon ;p

ilyone:

Let’s be real this silly cross-over has absolutely no reason to exist except for the fact that it made me happy to draw it ;p (and the parallel made me laugh)

Also I think I missed jasico week when I was away so expect one or two jasico sketches to make up for that sometime soon ;p

I think one thing you can do to help your friends who are depressed is to reach out to them not in the spirit of helping, but in the spirit of liking them and wanting their company. “I’m here to help if you ever need me” is good to know, but hard to act on, especially when you’re in a dark place. Specific, ongoing, pleasure-based invitations are much easier to absorb. “I’m here. Let’s go to the movies. Or stay in and order takeout and watch some dumb TV.” “I’m having a party, it would be really great if you could come for a little while.” Ask them for help with things you know they are good at and like doing, so there is reciprocity and a way for them to contribute. “Will you come over Sunday and help me clear my closet of unfashionable and unflattering items? I trust your eye.” “Will you read this story I wrote and help me fix the dialogue?” “Want to make dinner together? You chop, I’ll assemble.” “I am going glasses shopping and I need another set of eyes.” Remind yourself why you like this person, and in the process, remind them that they are likable and worth your time and interest.

Talk to the parts of the person that aren’t being eaten by the depression. Make it as easy as possible to make and keep plans, if you have the emotional resources to be the initiator and to meet your friends a little more than halfway. If the person turns down a bunch of invitations in a row because (presumably) they don’t have the energy to be social, respect their autonomy by giving it a month or two and then try again. Keep the invitations simple; “Any chance we could have breakfast Saturday?” > “ARE YOU AVOIDING ME BECAUSE YOU’RE DEPRESSED OR BECAUSE YOU HATE ME I AM ONLY TRYING TO HELP YOU.” “I miss you and I want to see you” > “I’m worried about you.” A depressed person is going to have a shame spiral about how their shame is making them avoid you and how that’s giving them more shame, which is making them avoid you no matter what you do. No need for you to call attention to it. Just keep asking. “I want to see you” “Let’s do this thing.” “If you are feeling low, I understand, and I don’t want to impose on you, but I miss your face. Please come have coffee with me.” “Apology accepted. ApologIES accepted. So. Gelato and Outlander?”
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#613: How do I reach out to my friends who have depression? | Captain Awkward

P.S. A lot of people with depression and other mental illnesses have trouble making decisions or choosing from a bunch of different options. “Wanna get dinner at that pizza place on Tuesday night?” is a LOT easier to answer than “So wanna hang out sometime? What do you want to do?”

(via startrekrenegades)

Oh god I need to share this with the world

a-spork-with-feelings:

kewilom:

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No words neeeded

dinodoollee:

Early post of Oofuri_69min challenge “first kiss”This show makes it too easy for this.

dinodoollee:

Early post of Oofuri_69min challenge “first kiss”
This show makes it too easy for this.

czarrs:


shaebertoothtiger submitted:
i luv ur toudou n maki dang…….. dang.

CLUTCHES CHEST
OH MAN„„ OH MY GOSH„, THANK YOU„,im cryin„„,

czarrs:

shaebertoothtiger submitted:

i luv ur toudou n maki dang…….. dang.

CLUTCHES CHEST

OH MAN„„ OH MY GOSH„, THANK YOU„,im cryin„„,

grolia:

Gekkan Shoujo Nozaki-kun, everyone.

"Sometimes Hinata gets this intimidating air about him... He probably isn't conscious of it..."

raggedypendragons:

girls don’t want boys, girls want a soaking wet natalie dormer telling katie mcgrath to do her